Being Yourself Is Sexy

There are many magazine articles and web pages written about what it takes to be sexy, but the answers that an article in Psychology Today got may be a bit surprising to some readers. The article is about what it means to have really good sex, which is something that everyone is told that they should be having by just about every media venue.

One of the components of great sex was the sexiness of being authentic. This was listed by respondents as one of the most important aspects of having really good sex. You don’t have to be a master at every type of sex in the book, as long as you’re being who you really are and aren’t inhibited about it, you have the potential to have great sex.

It makes sense, as being open and honest means that you’ll ask for what you actually want, which is likely to be the best possible sex for you. When you’re thinking of trying new things, remember that being honest about what turns you on is one of the biggest turn owns of all. Being liberated is a great way to make your pattern feel the same way.

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Choosing the Right Dildo

Selecting the right dildo can be an overwhelming experience for many women. Those who have never shopped for one before can find that the sheer number of options can make it difficult to decide. By understanding some of the most popular options, buying the right dildo becomes easier.

Consider the different types of materials. They come in glass, silicone, jelly, and more. Silicone is quite popular because they offer flexibility and a realistic feel. They also heat up to body temperature quickly. Women need to determine what shape they would like as well. Some have a curved shape, which can be good for stimulating different areas. The size is important as well. Women new to sex toys may want to choose something in the “Goldilocks Zone” – not too small and not too big. If the dildo is too big, it could be too intimidating. If it is too small, it may not offer enough stimulation. Consider the size of toys you’ve used in the past or your partner’s penis size when choosing a dildo.

Always keep these three factors in mind while looking at the options on the market. They make it easier to choose one that is right for you!

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Laws Banning Porn Forward Unpleasant Stereotypes

In England, David Cameron has been making a great deal of hay about his success in protecting families by making it more difficult for people to search for porn. An article in the Telegraph, however, points out some rather disturbing stereotypes on which laws such as these – which are endorsed by powerful political lobbies in many countries – are based.

For women, it has been a long road toward being able to openly and unashamedly embrace sexuality. The restrictions on people’s rights to look at pornography, erotica, buy sex toys and engage in other sexual activities that many groups endorse tend to be predicated on the idea that they are somehow protecting women. As the article points out, this rather tends to cast women in the role of helpless victims who are somehow always at risk because of the fact that sex exists.

Fast forward to the end of the article and you’ll find out some interesting facts. For example, women are more likely than men to search out certain terms related to sex in search engines. Women are also just as likely as men to look up information on sex toys, sex chat and other subjects, rather putting to the lie the idea that women need to be protected from sex and begging the question: who do these restrictions really serve?

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50 Shades of Dominant

Recently, the popularity of books such as 50 Shades of Grey has brought sexual dominance into the focus of mainstream sexual thought. Sexual dominance is a preference rather than an orientation, the latter term being more apt to describe homosexuality or bisexuality. Some people are occasionally sexually dominant but not always so and other people are what are called lifestyle sexual dominants, which means that they are almost always inclined to take the dominant role during sex.

If this is something that you and your lover are interested in exploring, such as a woman writing in The Frisky detailed, it’s not something you should feel weird about. There are plenty of sex toys geared toward this type of sexuality and, just as the name of the popular book indicates, there are vastly different degrees of sexually dominant. Some people are incredibly demanding of their lovers and seek out lovers who enjoy partners who have that quality. Other people aren’t so much dominant as they are very clear about what they want and have an ability to make it apparent that they intend to get it. No matter where you fall on the spectrum, this is a perfectly normal, healthy style of sexual play that can be worth exploring.

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Sharing Sex Toys

Some sex toys are used by couples or groups of people who are intimate together. Therefore, they end up sharing the same toy. There are safe ways to do this and there are genuinely dangerous ways to do this. The thing to keep in mind is that, even though it’s not an animate object, a sex toy is every bit as capable of carrying contaminants as is any body part. With that in mind, it’s easy to see that there are some smart practices you can follow to protect yourself and your partners.

First, using a condom is a great idea. You should change the condom whenever you change the area of the body that the sex toy is being used on or whenever you change from one person to the other. Health gives great information on this.

Cleaning the sex toy is also vital to making certain that it is safe. Not only does this keep the sex toy safe, it can also prolong its life cycle. By keeping it properly cleaned, silicone will last longer and stay soft and other materials will hold up longer, as well. By cleaning, you can be sure that you will get the maximum possible value out of your sex toy.

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Making that Rechargeable Sex Toy Last

If you purchased a sex toy with a charger that plugs into the wall socket, it likely has some sort of a lithium-ion battery in it. These types of batteries are famous for being very long lasting and for being able to take many charges. Some of the things that people believe about these batteries, however, are untrue and may actually make your battery last shorter than it could.

To make the battery in most of these toys last longer, don’t discharge the toy completely. Tech Republic does a good job of explaining why. It should have a little bit of charge left in it when you put it on the charger again. Most of these batteries are very long-lasting before they are completely discharged, so this usually isn’t an issue. This may be counterintuitive for some people, however, as many people have it in their head that recharging a partially discharged battery means that the battery will never fully charge again. This is true for some types of batteries, but not for the types of batteries you’ll generally find in rechargeable sex toys.

If you are using rechargeable batteries that are not built into the sex toy itself, however, make sure you follow the manufacturer’s recommendations as to discharging and recharging the battery.

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Don't Be Afraid of Your Fantasies

An article in Psychology Today does a great job of explaining how people tend to compartmentalize their sexual fantasies. For some people, some of their sexual fantasies are, according to the article, ugly, others are bad and some are good. In reality, a person with a healthy sexuality tends to incorporate all of these fantasies in a way that emphasizes what they have to offer in terms of pleasure without any of them actually ascending to the level of ugliness, though some people have hang-ups about their own sexuality that make them regard their fantasies as being so.

Purchasing sex toys, for some people, is an incredibly adventurous foray into a world they have never explored. For other people, it’s simply replacing their dildo. If you are of the former type, realize that, once you cross the threshold of embracing this particular sexual fantasy, there is an entire range of fantasies that you can indulge. The key to enjoying these fantasies is not to feel shame or embarrassment about them. Take a look at a catalog of sex toys and you’ll see that there are clearly quite a few people who purchase them regularly, given how many are available on the market. There’s nothing to be ashamed of were sextoys are concerned and they’re certainly not ugly.

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/contemporary-psychoanalysis-in-action/201305/erotic-fantasies-the-good-the-bad-and-the-ugly

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What Does BDSM Mean?

If you and your lover have been looking for new sex toys, you’ve probably run across ones that are recommended for BDSM play. BDSM is a three-part acronym. It s?tands for Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission, and Sadomasochism. These are actually three types of closely related forms of sexual play that, while they do share that close relationship, are different.

Bondage and discipline don’t necessarily have to go hand-in-hand, despite what the acronym would imply. Some couples who experiment with bondage play don’t have any element of playful punishment involved in it; no one has been “bad”, for instance. In such cases, vulnerability is usually what the couple is looking for. Domination and submission is a power dynamic between a couple wherein one assumes the role of demanding and the other assumes the role of accommodating. This is a very common form of sexual play that exists in many different levels of intensity. Sadomasochism specifically describes people getting pleasure from inflicting consensual and sane levels of pain – a sexual sadist – and a person who enjoys receiving it – a sexual masochist.

All of these forms of play have in common that they are all consensual. The site Xeromag gives more detailed information on this area of human sexuality

http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdsm.html

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50 Shades of Dominant

Recently, the popularity of books such as 50 Shades of Grey has brought sexual dominance into the focus of mainstream sexual thought. Sexual dominance is a preference rather than an orientation, the latter term being more apt to describe homosexuality or bisexuality. Some people are occasionally sexually dominant but not always so and other people are what are called lifestyle sexual dominants, which means that they are almost always inclined to take the dominant role during sex.

If this is something that you and your lover are interested in exploring, such as a woman writing in The Frisky detailed, it’s not something you should feel weird about. There are plenty of sex toys geared toward this type of sexuality and, just as the name of the popular book indicates, there are vastly different degrees of sexually dominant. Some people are incredibly demanding of their lovers and seek out lovers who enjoy partners who have that quality. Other people aren’t so much dominant as they are very clear about what they want and have an ability to make it apparent that they intend to get it. No matter where you fall on the spectrum, this is a perfectly normal, healthy style of sexual play that can be worth exploring.

http://www.thefrisky.com/2010-03-02/girl-talk-i-wanted-to-be-dominated/

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Add Some Bondage Play to the Bedroom

Looking to do something a bit naughty in the bedroom? While you might have entertained the idea of buying and using new sex toys before, bondage could work too. You may want to add it to your other types of toys too. If bondage does sound like a good idea to you, the first thing to do is make sure your partner is on board. Talk with your partner about what might be agreeable and come up with your own “rules” to use. Start looking at the different options for bondage gear and toys online.

After you determine that you both like the idea of bondage, it is time to start shopping. That’s just the first part of the fun! What items do you want to buy? Should you start with a restraint kit and a riding crop? Should you buy some paddles and gags instead? Do blindfolds and handcuffs sound fun? You have many different options, so work with your partner to see what seems like a good fit. If you are new to this type of experimentation, it could be a mistake to go too big too soon. Start with some smaller, simpler items and add to the bondage collection later.

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Types of Vibrators

Vibrators are some of the most popular sex toys available today. They come in different shapes, styles, and sizes and they are at home in the nightstands and travel cases of many women. With the sheer variety of options, finding one that’s just right for you should not be too hard.

Branch vibrators such as the Rabbit are big sellers and popular with many women. G-spot vibrators are another popular choice. The Bullet and the Egg are two other popular options that many choose to buy. Women have a near endless supply of options when it comes to the vibrators they want to buy and use. The technology of today’s vibrators is better than those of the past. They are quieter, smaller, and easier to clean. One of the biggest advantages with the newer vibrators is the fact that some are wireless. Some even have remote controls!

With the options, every woman with an interest in sex toys and vibrators should be able to find several that are ideal. When choosing a vibrator, look at the style, the quality, and the cost. Spending a bit more to get better quality is often a good idea, as those products tend to last longer.

ADDRESS

Industrial Luv Products Inc.

B1 – 1933 8th Ave (lower level)

Regina, SK 

S4R 1E9

Canada

Website:  http://www.industrialuv.com/

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Sex Toys on Your Business Trip or Vacation

Are you traveling anytime soon? If you are, whether it is for business or pleasure, you may want to bring along some sex toys and devices with you. If on a business trip, one of these toys could help you to pass some lonely nights. If traveling with your partner, bringing along some sex toys could be a great way to add even more excitement on your vacation. If you do plan to bring them with you, think ahead and do it the right way.

First, do not bring your favorites. In fact, it might be a good idea to buy some extras for your trip. Buy a cheaper version and take that instead. This way, if you lose it or it breaks during transit, you will not be as upset.

Second, pack right. If you are flying, put the items in your regular luggage. Chances are slim that someone will need to open your bag, but be prepared if they do. It might be embarrassing now, but it will make a great story later!

Third, use it! In the beginning, it might feel weird to use one of these toys in a new environment. Use that naughty feeling as a part of the experience.

ADDRESS
Industrial Luv Products Inc.
B1 – 1933 8th Ave (lower level)
Regina, SK 
S4R 1E9

Canada

Website:  http://industrialuv.com/

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