Here’s a sexual guilt trip that most people will probably have experienced at least once. You’re having sex with your partner and you start thinking about someone else. Afterward you wonder if you’re really into your partner that much or if you’re cheating on them somehow.
Fantasizing during sex is totally normal.
Many people fantasize as part of sex. It doesn’t mean that they’d rather be with someone else, it just means that they’re fantasizing for any one of many possible reasons. They may be staying focused on sex, which helps them perform. They may be enhancing their experience by thinking of something that they’re not ready to talk about yet. They might also be fantasizing about doing something a bit different with the partnered they’re with. There are any number of possibilities, many of which are actually good signs, not bad ones, about the health of a relationship.
If the fantasy eventually leads to the partner sharing what’s getting them all hot, that’s always a good thing. If it just makes sex more fun, it’s a good thing, too. Fantasy is part of human sexuality and, if someone seems to be drifting off somewhere else when you’re together, remember it’s the reality that really counts.
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