Experimenting with Impact Toys

 

Impact play is the term used to describe any sort of sadomasochistic activity that involves striking a person’s body. Impact play toys are most commonly whips and crops. Here are some tips for experimenting with them and what you should stock up on if you want to get into a bit of kink.

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Cleaning Plastic Sex Toys

Plastic is one of the easier materials to clean as far as sex toys go. Because plastic sex toys tend to be less expensive than ones made out of other materials, people may not care for these devices as much as they do their more expensive sex toys, but they do need to be cleaned thoroughly for the sake of safety.

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Choosing Lingerie That Suits Your Figure

If you’re trying to spice up your love life a little bit, it helps to keep in mind the fact that men are intensely visual creatures, at least sexually speaking. Lingerie is one of the ways that women can increase sexual interest in their male partners and, of course, it’s also a handy way to announce that you’re in the mood.

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Becoming a Sex Toy Expert

There are sex toys for men, sex toys for women, sex toys for couples, and plenty of variations of each type. If you want to find great sex toys, it starts in the same way that shopping for anything else does. You have to become an expert in what you’re looking for, and it may not be as hard as you think where sex toys are concerned.

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Having Realistic Expectations in the Bedroom

One of the things that can put a lot of pressure on a relationship is having unrealistic expectations about sex and romance. Both men and women have different ideas of what their romantic and sex life should be, and unfortunately, much of this has a basis in the media they

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Sex Toys for the Guys

 

Sex toys aren’t just for the ladies. Today, guys have quite a few options when it comes to various types of toys that they can use for solo sex or with a partner. Many options are available, but some are proving to be more popular than others are. Here’s a look at some of the best choices that might be right to add to your own collection if you do not already have them.

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Cleaning Glass Sex Toys

As anyone who has sex toys knows, part of keeping them in good shape and ensuring they last for years is taking proper care of them. This means knowing the materials for each of your toys and following the manufacturer’s instructions on caring for them. If you do not, they won’t last long at all. Some of the most popular sex toys around are glass dildos, and there are many reasons for this. First, the dildos are available in a variety of shapes and sizes, and even styles. Some have textures, some have curves, and some might be so fancy you could put it on your coffee table and tell people it’s a piece of art.

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How to Keep Her Attracted to You

Have you been feeling that your sex life is just not quite what it once was? Do you think it’s an issue with her? Before you start casting blame, it might be time to look at what you are doing and see how you might be able to make a few changes to ensure she is still attracted to you. Here are some tips that might help.

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Having Fantasies and Fetishes Is Normal

Are you the type of person who gets embarrassed by your sexual fantasies? Do you blush at the thought of your special “secret” fetish? Many people feel this way, mostly because society tells us that these things are taboo and somehow wrong. The truth of the matter is that they are entirely natural and normal and everyone has them.

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Is It Time to Get a New Sex Toy?

Are you in the market for a new sex toy? Even if you have several toys, now might be a good time to pick up something new and exciting for a couple of different reasons. If you have been using the same toy for a while now, you might be getting a bit bored with it. Even though it does the job nicely, you may be looking for a different level of stimulation. Getting a new sex toy and putting it into your rotation is a nice way of spicing things up a bit.

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Oral Sex Advice for the Guys

If you want to give your lady the best oral sex she’s ever had, you really have to know what you are doing. It’s not as simple as heading down there and poking at things with your tongue, although that’s what many men do. Instead, you need to have some technique, and it involves a bit of foreplay even before you go down. Kissing, touching, and getting her ready to go can go a long way into making the experience better for both of you.

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Reduce Stress for Better Sex

Many experts will tell you that having sex can help you to reduce your stress levels and make you feel better overall. This is true, but many people find that the act of sex, given their busy life, is stressful in and of itself. It’s important for people to find some other ways that they can start to reduce the stress in their life, which can in turn lead to better sex. The better sex leads to greater stress reduction and a healthier life. Let’s look at some of the things that you can do to reduce your stress and improve your sex life at the same time.

Exercise is a huge help and can help you lower your stress levels while helping you to improve your strength and stamina. You will feel better about yourself, stronger and more confident, and this reduces the mental stress you might have when having sex. Another good way to reduce stress and start having better sex is with some meditation. Remove the stress and worry from your life, and watch as your sex life blooms. Everything is connected. Reduce stress, have better sex, and the stress goes down further! It works like magic.

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Sexy and Safe Bondage Tips

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Does the thought of bondage thrill and titillate you? If so, then you certainly aren’t alone, but you will want to make sure you know a bit about bondage, as well as how to keep safe before you bring it into your own bedroom. Engaging in bondage means that one person’s movements are somehow restricted. They are bound. This could be with scarves, handcuffs, straps, or just about anything else. People like the thought of giving up some of the power they have and letting someone else control them for a short time.

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Preventing Premature Ejaculation

Premature ejaculation, and the fear of premature ejaculation, affects many men today, and it can be a huge source of embarrassment. Fortunately, you can do several things that can help you gain more control over how quickly you ejaculate, and it’s not as difficult as some might think.

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Oral Sex Advice for the Ladies

Some ladies actually enjoy going down on their man, while others are a bit reticent about it. They may want to provide him with oral pleasure, but they may simply not know exactly how to give a mind-blowing blowjob. The tips and tricks in this post should help to make things a bit easier for you.

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Only Use Real Sex Toys

We’ve all been in the mood for some self-pleasure, and that’s when we can sometimes be the most creative. We start to see many household items that we feel could double as sex toys, and suddenly it seems like a good idea to use them. However, homemade improvised toys could actually be one of the worst ideas you’ve ever had! They can actually be quite dangerous.

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Fantasizing During Sex Is Fine

Here’s a sexual guilt trip that most people will probably have experienced at least once. You’re having sex with your partner and you start thinking about someone else. Afterward you wonder if you’re really into your partner that much or if you’re cheating on them somehow.

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Toys for Both of You

For some people – for many people, actually – sex toys are personal and they are private. That’s perfectly fine. You can keep them to yourself if you wish. However, you may also at least want to consider some of the benefits that can come from having sex toys for you and your partner to use while you are having sex. It can open up new possibilities and lead you to a new sexual experience. Let’s look at a few toys that you might want to bring into the bedroom soon, just to see where it might all lead.

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The Right Music for a Night of Passion

When you are planning a special night with your lover – whether you’ve been together for years, or you are just having sex for the first time, you want things to be perfect. One of the elements you want to get right is the music. You need to have great music that matches the mood – and your personalities – if you hope for things to go right.

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Sex Toys Make for Better Relationships

Unbelievably, some people out there think that when the sex toys come into the bedroom, it means that the relationship is in trouble. They think that it means something must be wrong if there needs to be toys. We know that’s not the case though. In fact, adding sex toys to your encounters is a way to make your relationships better than ever. In fact, it can make your sex even more enjoyable as long as you get the right toys.

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Keep Your Woman Happy in Bed

You want your lady to be happy with you, and you certainly want her to be happy with you in bed. This post is not about sexual technique or sex toys though. Instead, it’s about learning what you should and should not do and say if you do not want to ruin a good thing! The following are things you want to consider if you want to keep her happy in bed. If you do, then it might mean you will be happy in bed as well.

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Healthy Living for Better Sex

When you lead a healthier lifestyle, it can lead to having better sex. It’s true. When you feel good about yourself and when you have more energy, you are more willing to engage in sex. Your confidence can lead to new relationships too. The couch potatoes out there should consider making a few changes in their life if they really want to boost their libido and have the best sex ever. It takes a commitment, but it is possible to make those changes. Here’s what you need to do.

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Making Anal Sex Better

If anal sex hasn’t worked out for you, but you still feel driven to try it, consider how you’re doing. You should also consider how much about your body you really know, because that might be the cause of the problem.

First, some people just don’t anal sex. It’s a preference and, if the thought of it doesn’t turn someone on, they’re probably not going to be into the act, either. It’s not an uncommon practice, by any measure, however and multiple sources show that people are generally okay with trying it.

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How to Approach Roleplaying in the Bedroom

Roleplaying is a great way to put the excitement and the spark back into a relationship, but it can be a bit awkward, at least in the beginning. Even those couples who have been together for a number of years and who are fully comfortable with one another can feel silly when they are taking on other roles and playing make believe.

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Keeping Your Sex Toys Clean

Sex toys are naughty, and they can be dirty, but they should never be dirty. That sounds convoluted, but it simply means that you really do want to make sure you keep your toys as clean as possible for your own health and safety. If you do not keep them clean, there is always a chance that they could cause an infection or introduce bacteria to your body. The toys are in contact with many fluids from the body, including saliva, semen, and vaginal fluid. This could also transmit disease.

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Change the Batteries in Your Sex Toys

Is your vibrator vibrating just a little bit less than usual? Instead of worrying that it might be the motor burning out, check the batteries. Most of the time, simply popping in a fresh set of batteries is all you will need to do and it will be up and running at full power again. Don’t worry that the reason your vibrator needed a new battery is because you were using it too much either! The power in batteries diminishes over time, even if you aren’t using them. So, even if you put in what you think is a new battery, it could fizzle after only a few uses if it is past the expiration date.

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What Is Vanilla Sex?

It’s ironic that something with a flavor as distinctive as vanilla is used as a metaphor for flavorless, but that’s what the term vanilla sex really implies. There are plenty of articles out there about how you can add some interest to your vanilla sex but, here’s a tip: There is nothing wrong with vanilla sex if that’s what you’re into.

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Study Shows that Thin Isn't Necessarily In

It’s common for men and women alike to associate being sexy with being thin. According to a new study, however, this isn’t necessarily the case and a good portion of the world might be fooling themselves as to what people want.

The study, the basis for an upcoming book called A Billion Wicked Thoughts, was conducted by two neuroscientists, Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam. They took millions of pieces of information from web searches and other sources and coalesced them into a picture of what really turns people on. One of the things they discovered will likely come as a surprise to people who are obsessed about their weight.

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When to Replace a Sex Toy

Sex toys are higher quality and better than they've ever been. That means that one might be around for many years, but there is a time when you do have to replace them. As long as you keep them clean, they’ll be worth every penny, but here are some other signs that you need a new sex toy.

Cracked or Flaked: If the exterior material is degrading, you need to replace the toy. Cracks and fissures can create places for bacteria and other organisms to grow and make it hard to clean the toy properly. They may also stop feeling good if they’re rough on the outside.

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Storing Sex Toys

If you buy good sex toys, you need to store them right. Some toys can be destroyed by improper storage and some toys shouldn’t be brought into contact with one another. Here are some tips.

First, find out how the various materials used in the sex toys you have react to one another. For instance, silicone toys should not be touching other silicone toys when they’re in storage. Likewise, some forms of latex will melt if they’re brought into contact with leather, so be sure to keep them separated. Read up on what your toys are made of to learn more.

Second, consider the usages. Even though you clean—you should clean—all your toys before you store them, store them as if they were still dirty. For instance, anything used for anal penetration should not be stored in contact with anything used for vaginal penetration. Be sure you get all the lubricant off your toys, as well, as it might be good for one toy but destroy another toy.

If you read up on what your toys are made of, clean them well and store them somewhere safe and clean, your toys should last a very long time.

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How to Choose Your First Sex Toys

What is the first sex toy you should buy? Well, the answer for this is different for everyone. Different people have different desires and wants. You might be looking for a solo toy, or you might be looking for something that you can use with a partner. The first thing you have to do is determine your likes and dislikes and that can help to narrow your selection.

In the beginning, it is generally a good idea to keep things relatively uncomplicated. You don’t need giant vibrators with a hundred different settings! Look for some vibrators, such as the rabbit vibrator. Look at the different options that are out there too, and do not choose the first one that you find. Always check the reviews if there are any so you can see what other people have to say about the product.

If you are buying a toy to use with someone else, you have to consider what both people want from it. You might want to try some bondage gear, even if it is as simple as some fuzzy handcuffs and a blindfold. Take your time to explore the options and find the items that are perfect for you.

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How to Find and Choose Sex Toys

Those who have never shopped for a sex toy before are in for quite a surprise. The sheer volume and variety of options available is enough to make anyone’s jaw drop to the floor. With all of those choices, how can you possibly find the right sex toy? Well, what you have to do is answer a few questions to help you narrow your selection. You should also remember that no one ever said you could have just one! Buy a few and experiment.

When you are choosing one of your first toys though, you can focus your selection by looking at a few things. First, do you want something that takes batteries, such as a vibrator? Do you want a traditional dildo? Are you looking for a clitoral stimulator? What size would you like?

Once you can answer those questions, you can start looking at the different options and materials that are available. You might want plastic, metal, or even glass. Then, you can start looking at the aesthetics of the toys. Do you want something realistic looking? Toys come in a rainbow of colors as well.

It might take some time to find a perfect toy, but it will certainly be some fun shopping.

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There Is No Place for Jealousy

When it comes to sex toys, one of the few things that could ever be considered an issue with them is the fact that they can actually make some people jealous. Men are the ones who fall prey to this mostly. They may feel intimidated by the idea of a sex toy their woman is using, and they might even feel as though the toy is somehow replacing them. At that point, jealousy comes slithering out of the cracks. This is a killer for any relationship.

What you have to do is help him to realize that you are not using the sex toys as a replacement. You are using them to accentuate the experience. Instead of having him sit on the sidelines and watch as you use it – although some men do like that – you could have him lend a hand so to speak. Make him a part of giving you that pleasure.

You also need to remember that it is not all about you. You could always surprise him with a sex toy that he could use, such as a Fleshlight.

By talking things through and helping him to understand that the toys should bring you closer together, it is often possible to squash jealousy before it gets a foothold.

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When Your Vibrator No Longer Gets You Off

If you use the same vibrator over and over, you might find that you get a bit tolerant to it and it doesn't get you off like you used to. There’s great information out there about how to use a vibrator to get yourself off, and some that suggest that you can use one too much, but sometimes you might just need to change to a different model.

There are a lot more sophisticated vibrators on the market than they’re used to be. There are vibrators that look nothing like a penis and there are ones that look almost exactly like a penis. There are vibrators with multiple types of vibration available, at multiple speeds, which are very durable and long lasting.

If you've been using the same old vibrator for a long time, consider getting a new one if it’s not working for you anymore. You may actually find that it does again after you use something else. Remember that there are so many different types of vibrators that you can have more than one good one and use them both, so there’s no reason to feel like one sex toy should take care of all of your needs, every time. Options are not in short supply!

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Fun Games for a Spicy Night

Never have a dull routine when it comes to your sex life. While sex might not be the only thing in a relationship – it shouldn’t be – that does not mean that you can let your sex life suffer and dwindle. If you do that, you can be sure that your relationship will follow. If you want to add something a bit special to your nights, consider playing some fun sex games with that someone special. Let’s look at a couple of easy and fun suggestions.

Truth or Dare

You’ve probably played truth or dare before, but you might not have done it with a sexual twist. It can be a fun game for couples to play, and whether you choose truth or dare, you can be sure that something exciting will follow. You might even want to have a few interesting sex toys on hand for those dares!

Trace

Here’s a simple game that can really help a couple connect in a sensual way. Take turns using your finger to trace different letters, shapes, or words onto your lover’s body. Have them wear a blindfold or close their eyes and guess at what you are writing or drawing. Draw on all different parts of the body – the small of the back, chest, thighs, and more!

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Expanding Your Sex Toy Arsenal

Sometimes, people discover sex toys and they can’t stop once they get going. There are many options out there, and here are some ways that you can add to your collection and what go consider when you do.

Consider whether you want a completely different toy or just a more advanced version of what you have. You’re particularly in luck if you’re looking for a vibrator, as there are some very sophisticated and quality models out there now. Consider how it differs from what you have. More attachments? Different attachments? Different power source? There are many options to try and you can be very specific in this regard.

Consider how much material plays into how a sex toy works, as well. For example, there are very lifelike materials available and there are ultra-modern materials, such as stainless steel. Experiment in this regard. You may find that something you would have passed on normally to be exactly what you’re looking for! The options in materials are astounding these days.

You can also consider whether you want the toy for a new form of play or for one you do all the time, and let that guide your choice.

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Tips for Foreplay

Most of the time, men are the ones who rush through foreplay like they are tearing off wrapping paper on Christmas morning, but women can be guilty of this as well. Foreplay is actually a very important part of your intimate life and it really does have the potential to accentuate the sexual experience. Instead of seeing it as a task, look at some of the ways that you can do it right and have a great time.

Start with some dirty talk. You can keep it light and just a bit naughty, or you can go a little dirtier if that’s how you and your partner like it. While you are talking dirty, get out the massage oil and give your partner a sensual massage from top to bottom. Remember, you aren’t just trying to rush through the foreplay. You really need to make it about making your partner happy. Focus your attention on one another. Maybe even bring out some sex toys if both of you like using them.

You can then slowly move on to other things and, yes, that includes sex. Foreplay can, and should, be a great time for both of you so take your time and learn to master it.

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Being Yourself Is Sexy

There are many magazine articles and web pages written about what it takes to be sexy, but the answers that an article in Psychology Today got may be a bit surprising to some readers. The article is about what it means to have really good sex, which is something that everyone is told that they should be having by just about every media venue.

One of the components of great sex was the sexiness of being authentic. This was listed by respondents as one of the most important aspects of having really good sex. You don’t have to be a master at every type of sex in the book, as long as you’re being who you really are and aren’t inhibited about it, you have the potential to have great sex.

It makes sense, as being open and honest means that you’ll ask for what you actually want, which is likely to be the best possible sex for you. When you’re thinking of trying new things, remember that being honest about what turns you on is one of the biggest turn owns of all. Being liberated is a great way to make your pattern feel the same way.

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Choosing the Right Dildo

Selecting the right dildo can be an overwhelming experience for many women. Those who have never shopped for one before can find that the sheer number of options can make it difficult to decide. By understanding some of the most popular options, buying the right dildo becomes easier.

Consider the different types of materials. They come in glass, silicone, jelly, and more. Silicone is quite popular because they offer flexibility and a realistic feel. They also heat up to body temperature quickly. Women need to determine what shape they would like as well. Some have a curved shape, which can be good for stimulating different areas. The size is important as well. Women new to sex toys may want to choose something in the “Goldilocks Zone” – not too small and not too big. If the dildo is too big, it could be too intimidating. If it is too small, it may not offer enough stimulation. Consider the size of toys you’ve used in the past or your partner’s penis size when choosing a dildo.

Always keep these three factors in mind while looking at the options on the market. They make it easier to choose one that is right for you!

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Laws Banning Porn Forward Unpleasant Stereotypes

In England, David Cameron has been making a great deal of hay about his success in protecting families by making it more difficult for people to search for porn. An article in the Telegraph, however, points out some rather disturbing stereotypes on which laws such as these – which are endorsed by powerful political lobbies in many countries – are based.

For women, it has been a long road toward being able to openly and unashamedly embrace sexuality. The restrictions on people’s rights to look at pornography, erotica, buy sex toys and engage in other sexual activities that many groups endorse tend to be predicated on the idea that they are somehow protecting women. As the article points out, this rather tends to cast women in the role of helpless victims who are somehow always at risk because of the fact that sex exists.

Fast forward to the end of the article and you’ll find out some interesting facts. For example, women are more likely than men to search out certain terms related to sex in search engines. Women are also just as likely as men to look up information on sex toys, sex chat and other subjects, rather putting to the lie the idea that women need to be protected from sex and begging the question: who do these restrictions really serve?

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