Making Anal Sex Better

If anal sex hasn’t worked out for you, but you still feel driven to try it, consider how you’re doing. You should also consider how much about your body you really know, because that might be the cause of the problem.

First, some people just don’t anal sex. It’s a preference and, if the thought of it doesn’t turn someone on, they’re probably not going to be into the act, either. It’s not an uncommon practice, by any measure, however and multiple sources show that people are generally okay with trying it.

First, remember to go slow, even if you’ve tried it before. You have to know your own body and, importantly, where something pleasurable is going to become something painful. A toy that’s made for vaginal insertion, for example, will be proportioned much differently than most made for anal play, showing that it’s definitely something you have to learn about if you haven’t done it before or very much.

Pay attention to how your body reacts. Sometimes, people take a long time to get used to a new sensation. If you don’t like it, it’s not a failure. It just means it’s not your type of sex. There are plenty of other ways to enjoy yourself with your partner.

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