It’s ironic that something with a flavor as distinctive as vanilla is used as a metaphor for flavorless, but that’s what the term vanilla sex really implies. There are plenty of articles out there about how you can add some interest to your vanilla sex but, here’s a tip: There is nothing wrong with vanilla sex if that’s what you’re into.
Vanilla sex generally implies sex that is pretty straightforward and normal, or at least what people think of as normal. It may involve some toys, but nothing too elaborate. It probably involves a lot of kissing and cuddling, likely happens mostly in the missionary position and certainly doesn't involve anything that would be considered kinky.
The thing to keep in mind about vanilla sex is that it can be just as hot as the kinkiest, wildest sex out there.
Don’t let people who are more adventurous put you off and make you think you’re boring. You’re not. If your idea of a wild night is something involving a vibrator and that’s about it, you might just be the hottest thing in the world to the right person, and you shouldn't feel like a prude or that you’re bland because the only time you put on rubber gloves is when you’re doing the dishes.
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