When it comes to sex toys, one of the few things that could ever be considered an issue with them is the fact that they can actually make some people jealous. Men are the ones who fall prey to this mostly. They may feel intimidated by the idea of a sex toy their woman is using, and they might even feel as though the toy is somehow replacing them. At that point, jealousy comes slithering out of the cracks. This is a killer for any relationship.
What you have to do is help him to realize that you are not using the sex toys as a replacement. You are using them to accentuate the experience. Instead of having him sit on the sidelines and watch as you use it – although some men do like that – you could have him lend a hand so to speak. Make him a part of giving you that pleasure.
You also need to remember that it is not all about you. You could always surprise him with a sex toy that he could use, such as a Fleshlight.
By talking things through and helping him to understand that the toys should bring you closer together, it is often possible to squash jealousy before it gets a foothold.
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